Maybe you want to think about the reasons given. Do they make sense for you ? — learn from the mistakes of others, you can’t live long enough to make them all yourself.
You control your body. Don’t give that control away to anyone. It is your responsibility. Now, bad things can happen to your body that are beyond your control — NOT your fault.
But you are responsible for the things you choose to do. And if you chose to put stuff in your body that makes you lose control, you are still responsible for your body.
Many people will make excuses for someone who is drunk, or high, but if you did it to yourself, you are responsible for your actions, even if you don’t remember them the next day.
Compare this to the advice in Song of Solomon
She was flirting with the guy and getting turned on — Wait
She was serious about the guy and ready to make it permanent — Wait.
The guy was the one who was taking the lead in waiting. Married, committed –Go for it and Enjoy it. After a fight and make up sex — go for it and Supercharge it.
You will never get to Great Sex until it involves your heart, soul, mind and strength. And until you love the other person as much as you love yourself. All of this has to apply to the other person too. Two people all the way into the relationship or it will never make it to great.
Reasons why people have sex Most of the reasons given for having sex are from a list that Dr Cindy Meston and Dr David M Buss compiled from a survey they took. Their list provided 232 reasons.